No More Broke Love: Why Spiritual and Emotional Alignment Must Replace Empty Romance
By; Eric Paddy Boso
In today?s world of fast love and fleeting loyalty, we must draw a new line: no more broke girls, no more broke boys?and this goes beyond money. It's time to reject relationships that drain us spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and morally. Love is sacred, not transactional. Yet many continue to lay down their essence, worth, and values in the name of a love that is not even love at all, but hunger dressed in flattery.
We have entered an age where we must stop confusing chemistry with destiny. Attraction alone is not enough. Beauty is not a foundation. Good looks and sweet words are not spiritual qualifications. If a person?man or woman?does not align with your divine frequency, purpose, and moral compass, no matter how charming they may appear, they are not the one for your soul.
Love Without Reciprocation Is Exploitation
Too often, we give everything?our bodies, our time, our energy?to people who are not even trying to understand us, let alone pour back into us. That is not love. That is depletion.
Love must come with reciprocation?not just of material things, but of values, support, vision, truth, and spiritual growth. If you are always the one giving, always the one understanding, always the one compromising, then you are not in love?you are in bondage.
You were not created to be someone?s emotional trash can, spiritual step stool, or financial rescue mission. You were created to be met?heart to heart, soul to soul. And until that happens, you must learn to walk away from relationships that only take but never give.
Many Want What You Have, But Few Can Handle Who You Are
There will always be people interested in what you carry?your beauty, your kindness, your connections, your peace, your gifts. But don?t mistake interest for intention. Just because someone wants what you offer doesn?t mean they are worthy of sharing life with you.
You are more than what you bring to the table. You are the table. And anyone who wants to dine with you must also bring nourishment, wisdom, honesty, protection, and a willingness to serve love?s higher calling.
The Divine Purpose of Relationship
True love must serve a divine purpose. It is not just about companionship. It is about elevation?helping each other evolve into the fullness of your callings. It is about purpose alignment, spiritual resonance, and emotional maturity. Two whole beings choosing to pour into each other?s cups?not out of obligation, but out of sacred overflow.
This is why sex without spiritual alignment is dangerous. It opens gates to soul confusion, attachment, and emotional unrest. It creates trauma loops instead of healing spaces. This is not love. This is self-abandonment.
What We Must Now Embrace
Discernment over desperation ? Stop rushing to be loved. Instead, learn to discern who is capable of loving you at your divine depth.
Purpose over pleasure ? Let your love life be guided by destiny, not temporary desire.
Reciprocation over performance ? Love should not feel like you are constantly auditioning. If they don't see your worth now, they won?t protect it later.
Divine morality and values ? Let your faith, spiritual standards, and soul mission set the tone?not the trends of broken culture.
This is the age of conscious love. A time when we must rise above emotional chaos and choose sacred unions that reflect the heart of God. If it doesn?t water your garden, don?t let it in. If it doesn?t bring you peace, don?t call it love. And if it costs you your dignity, your energy, your truth, or your spiritual clarity?walk away.
You are not here to be broken down by love, but built up by it. So, no more broke love. No more broke girls or broke boys in spirit, in mindset, in purpose. Let every relationship you enter serve the higher version of who you are becoming. Anything less is a distraction.
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